Tuesday, February 21, 2017

You Look Just Like...


I must have the world's most common face. All my life I have had people tell me that I look just like someone they know. It is amusing most of the time but sometimes I wish I had something unique to distinguish me from other people.

Usually it is nothing more than a waitress saying, "You look just like my cousin's best friend!" or someone might say, "You look just the the person who used to live next door to me!" After so many times of this happening I have learned to just smile and say, "Really? I guess I just have a common face."

My husband and I had a junk yard. We bought cars for scrap. We salvaged usable parts and sent the remains to larger scrap dealers. I was the one who dealt with the public. I also dealt with other companies, like the larger scrap companies. I went to the small factory that made the work gloves we used. I went to the company that supplied the propane we used to power the cutting torches. You get the idea.

Often I was mistaken for someone else. But this time she had a name. She was MetaCore Mary.

MetaCore was a company that rebuilt auto parts like carburetors and starters then resold them. Mary was the one who picked up the gloves and propane for her company.

I would walk into one of these companies and be greeted with, "Hi. Mary. We've got your order ready." When I would tell them I was not Mary I was always told, "You look just like MetaCore Mary."

After a couple of years of this I finally crossed paths with MetaCore Mary. I had gone to refill the propane tanks. I was waiting for my turn when I heard the man at the counter refer to the woman in front of me as MetaCore Mary. I had to get a look.

I said, "So you're MetaCore Mary." She turned around with a guarded expression. I guess she thought I was going to accuse her of something.

I could see a resemblance but it only looked like we might be related, not that we looked alike. I told her about how I had been mistaken for her for several years and I just wanted to see what she looked like. She started to laugh and had a hard time stopping.

I was puzzled at her reaction. When she was able she finally said, "I've been hearing about you too. I don't think we look that much alike, but you look exactly like my younger sister!"

Yep. I have a common face.

18 comments:

  1. I was often mistaken for the woman my husband married after me. This made my daughter so angry.

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    1. I can understand your daughter being angry. Sounds like your husband has a definite "type".

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  2. So funny. One of my colleagues insisted I looked like her sister. I didn't see it at all. I think sometimes we have similar expressions, or a similar feature and people fill in the rest in their minds.

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  3. Mmmh - the theme of the Doppelgänger. Did it anger you that people mistook you for someone else?

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    1. Never. I was always rather amused and sometimes a bit befuddled but never angry.

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  4. I used to hear the same thing, but it didn't make me feel plain, it made me feel curious what those other fellows looked like. Now that I'll be 68 in a few more days, I too sometimes see people who I think look a little like me. I would guess that age has a leveling effect.

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    1. Something that has caught my attention is that I have always known that I resemble my mother but while going through old pictures I am seeing that I look a lot like her and always have. I look more like her now that I am getting older too. But what is scary is that sometimes I open my mouth my mother's voice comes out.

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    2. Something else that's scary is that when Peggy opens HER mouth, sometimes my mother's voice comes out, and I think that, well, am the person that I am making my wife become like my mother. If this is true, then maybe it was I who made my mother become like she was.

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    3. Now you have me confused. Is this something Oedipal or something causing anxiety? Peggy I apologize for my poor joke.

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    4. No, it's more like being visited by a ghost.

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    5. That I relate to. It is a shock every time it happens.

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  5. I'm glad you got to meet MetaCore Mary. That must have been fun.

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    1. It was fun. It was the only time I ever saw her. But would still be ccnfused for her.

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  6. That must have been an odd encounter! :-)

    Greetings from London.

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    1. It was a pleasant and friendly meeting. Maybe a little odd just because we each knew the other existed and that we were supposed to look alike.

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  7. I've heard that too, but I've never had the opportunity to meet my look-alike. What a great story.
    R

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    1. Thank you. It was nice to meet her. I hope you someday meet your look-alike.

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