Saturday, June 22, 2019

Living In The Big City


My husband and I decided to take the older of my siblings and show them around. After all there are a lot of things to see in a city.

There had been a recent snowfall. In rural areas snow sort of lays there or packs down a bit. In the city it becomes slush very quickly.

My husband was driving, I was in the middle of the front seat, and the oldest of my brothers was by the door. My sister and two other brothers were in the back seat.

As we were driving through downtown Detroit my brother had his window open and was trying not to miss anything. Suddenly SPLAT! A car drove by and threw slush up from its tires. My brother took it all in the face and down the front of his clothes.

Of course we all laughed. He was soaked so we cut our excursion short and went home.

My sister began dating a young man that my husband and I knew. It did not last long. She met someone we did not know and disappeared with him.

We searched for her for a long time but there was no trace of her. After a few years she finally wrote to one of my brothers in the Army. She was married and living in California. He gave her my address and she wrote to me.

She wanted to come home but was afraid. I told her to come to my house. I knew my parents wanted her home. The first day she came to my house I took her to see my parents. She decided to stay with them after all.

(By the way the young man she was dating married my brother-in-law's wife's sister. They divorced after having 4 children. By then my husband and I were divorced. My husband married her. Confused? We all are.)

My third brother had a rough time at school. Detroit has a well-earned reputation for being a violent city. Several days a week my brother was chased from school. They would take his shoes off of him to make sure he was not hiding any money. He never had any but that did not stop them.

The oldest two brothers were drafted while we lived in that apartment building.

My parents finally decided to move into a house. That story is next.

12 comments:

  1. Emma -I was really confused by the marriages and divorces and relationships! Very interesting, thank you Emma!

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    1. I will have to clarify all in a post in the future.

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  2. Families are the most complex social units of all!

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    1. They certainly are. Just the sheer size of my family is confusing.

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  3. Dear Emma thank you so much for sharing your life story with us

    life is bundle of thorns and flowers ,nothing last forever good or bad times ,we learn from them eventually

    i felt sorry for your brother who faced terror for nothing

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    1. He had a rough time. We knew nothing about what was happening for a long time.

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  4. Confusing is an understatement. Children can be so cruel!!! Have a good week, Diane

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    1. I am hoping to tie it all together. The problem is that I think it will still be somewhat confusing. I remember the first summer I was in the city I heard on the news about a teenage boy being killed because some other boys wanted a dime and he did not have it. It can be a rough city.

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  5. In my family, my father’s only sister and my mother’s sister each married brothers, so I can understand confusion. Detroit was a rough place to live even back then it seems.

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    1. Relationships within families can be so confusing. Detroit was a rough place to live long before I ever got there. It has been worse at times and better at times.

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